Magic Mike XXL is flooding every social media sight at the moment, the
latest crazes don’t normally bother me but I noticed something the other day or
for me had a huge eye opener in todays double standard society. It’s a big known
fact at the moment woman are campaigning for equality, you may have heard of the
‘Free The Nipple’ campaign? and now It’s a movie. Celebrities have even gotten
involved in supporting it; such as Miley Cyrus, Lena Dunham,Michelle
Rodriguez,Caitlin Stasey ,Scout Willis,Joe Jonas and Cara Delevingne have all been spotted
wearing the signature ‘Free The Nipple’ Tee Shirt.
Now about the Magic Mike film, basic rundown It’s about a bunch of male
strippers dancing provocative for woman on a stage while taking and
stripping their clothes down to nothing.Am I right? Okay yeah that’s
fine what ever you find entertaining.I’m open to watching anything! 95% of the
worlds female population find Channing Tatum, in particular very sexy and are
loving the fact he in on stage strutting his stuff and getting naked.
’ve seen
not one bad comment from girls or guys for that matter dissing the male
stripper profession but instead praising it and woman tagging their
girlfriend's in post wanting to organize a girls night out to go to a night club
where male strippers will be performing and guys replying with “You Go
Girls!!”.Twitter and Instagram are flooded with photos of Channing and is
fellow male strippers with the he’s so sexy written down below in the comments
and a thousand emoji’s with faces popping with hearts,blowing kisses,tongues
wagging and lipstick emoji’s all over the post from people.Since in resents
months it was made known that instagram does not allow the ‘ female
body’ to be shown topless; claiming it is “instances of abuse” and breaches
Instagram guidelines to post such a thing and your account get’s deleted; just
take a look at Scout Willis who was banded and lets not forget the photographer
that took a photos of herself on her period and posted a picture of her laying
down with blood seeping through her grey pants was also banded. FYI I have
researched this woman and found the photos and they were done very tastefully.
She should be proud of herself for them.Shame on Instagram.
Why is it okay for men to appear shirtless uploading photo’s of “Just been
to the gym”, but when a woman takes a picture of herself in her bra just for the
fact that hey I’m a girls, I have nice boobs, I’m wearing a pretty bra and I
feel sexy; is her being a slut? Why is this okay? Why are woman okay with this?
But in the same sense woman are the first ones to bring each other down, so when
I say “she looks like a slut for taking that picture” it’s 99% of the time a
woman writing the comment below. Why do we do it to ourselves when he should be
banding together and helping each other out and fighting for the right to be
able to take a topless photo of ourselves.You ask why do we want to take a photo
of ourselves topless? So we can be free and as a woman have the same rights as
men. Men did it? so why can’t woman? 80 years ago it was provocative and
shameful for men to appear shirtless but they banded together,fought for their
rights and achieved the outcome they wanted. Woman however struggle to say a
nice comment about each other; if it were a female strippers photo uploaded the
comments would be nothing of the good kind.There would be endless hate.
Justine beiber posted a photo of himself on Instagram in the nude leaving nothing to the imagination and his followers where nothing but pleased. Kim Kardashion also last week uploaded a less revealing photo of herself onto Instagram and the public wasn't pleased.
Kim and Justine are household names and known fame whores, especially Kim.But, that does not mean Kim should be put down for this photo and Justine praised for his. In my opinion Justine's photo looks like your typical rich kids enjoying a view on a yacht.Kim on the other hand looks beautiful and very feminine.It would be a totally different set of comments if she was wearing a bikini top. Literally what is the difference? and don't forget this is coming from a girl, who wears both bra's and bikini tops and I can honestly say, there is nothing. They both do the same job! But the only difference is one acceptable in public.
So right now I am asking why is it okay to be a male stripper and for
everyone to talk about it like It’s something glamorous but for a female
stripper It’s slutty and cheap and wrong and shameful; shall I go on? Most men
hide the fact they go to a strip club; woman, like what I have spoken about
above are screaming the roof down about going to one and It’s okay because It’s
a male stripper club and It’s okay for them to dance around sexually to earn
money, but for woman It’s just plain out wrong.
Why is this? It’s a job. Like
what we all have to have in society to pay our bills and survive day to
day.Female strippers are no different to male ones. They are all dancing
sexually, wearing skimping clothes,some wearing only a thong,dancing for the
opposite sex’ pleasure all just to make a living.Like the rest of us do every
day; their job is just a little different. Like everyone's else's job, my job
is a little different to yours,your father’s job is a little different to
yours,his best friends job is a little different to his. We all have a job that
is a little different from the rest. It’s what makes the world go around.So I
ask why is a male stripper better and classier than a female stripper? Why is it
so taboo? .Just think about it for a moment; what if there was no ‘magic Mike’
and instead a movie ‘Magic Megan’ lets just say for laughs is getting filmed
about female strippers and what It’s like to be one in a day to day life and the
struggles of society puts on them for being one.What if we had that instead?
something to makes us all think and stop for a minute. They are people just like
us doing their job. We need to stop tearing them down for it and praising the
opposite sex for it.
I appreciate anyone who is going to read this. The reason I created this blog is to post my opinion's and share them with other's and find out how they feel about the subjects I post about. And FYI incase you're wondering I am NOT a stripper and I have never met one before.
Peace out world
Midnights Darling
